Help PLEASE I HAVE MASTERBATED AND WATCHED PORN AS AN ARMIT SIKH WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I PESH I SAW ALOT OF WEBSITE AND PEOPLE KEPT ON SAYING YES AND NO PLEASE CAN YOU TELL ME DO I NEED TO PESH.
GOD FORGIVE ME.
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Help PLEASE I HAVE MASTERBATED AND WATCHED PORN AS AN ARMIT SIKH WHAT SHOULD I DO SHOULD I PESH I SAW ALOT OF WEBSITE AND PEOPLE KEPT ON SAYING YES AND NO PLEASE CAN YOU TELL ME DO I NEED TO PESH.
GOD FORGIVE ME.
In response to your question, the undersigned wants to say that the Gurbani teaches us that we all are His children and make mistakes:-
ਜੈਸਾ ਬਾਲਕੁ ਭਾਇ ਸੁਭਾਈ ਲਖ ਅਪਰਾਧ ਕਮਾਵੈ ॥ ਕਰਿ ਉਪਦੇਸੁ ਝਿੜਕੇ ਬਹੁ ਭਾਤੀ ਬਹੁੜਿ ਪਿਤਾ ਗਲਿ ਲਾਵੈ ॥ ਪਿਛਲੇ ਅਉਗੁਣ ਬਖਸਿ ਲਏ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਆਗੈ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਪਾਵੈ ॥੨॥ (ਪੰਨਾ 624)
ਅਰਥ: ਹੇ ਭਾਈ! ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕੋਈ ਬੱਚਾ ਆਪਣੀ ਲਗਨ ਅਨੁਸਾਰ ਸੁਭਾਵ ਅਨੁਸਾਰ ਲੱਖਾਂ ਗ਼ਲਤੀਆਂ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਉਸ ਦਾ ਪਿਉ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਸਿੱਖਿਆ ਦੇ ਦੇ ਕੇ ਕਈ ਤਰੀਕਿਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਝਿੜਕਦਾ ਭੀ ਹੈ, ਪਰ ਫਿਰ ਆਪਣੇ ਗਲ ਨਾਲ (ਉਸ ਨੂੰ) ਲਾ ਲੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਇਸੇ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਪ੍ਰਭੂ-ਪਿਤਾ ਭੀ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਦੇ ਪਿਛਲੇ ਗੁਨਾਹ ਬਖ਼ਸ਼ ਲੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਤੇ ਅਗਾਂਹ ਵਾਸਤੇ (ਜੀਵਨ ਦੇ) ਠੀਕ ਰਸਤੇ ਉਤੇ ਪਾ ਦੇਂਦਾ ਹੈ।੧।
Like the worldly father snubs us but guides us and embraces us, in a similar manner, Akalpurakh/Guru also forgives us, for our faults and puts us on the right path.
Therefore, it is important that one should accept mistakes, build up character and make it a point not to repeat the mistakes.
Hope it helps. If you have any further questions, please do ask. If you find any deficiencies, please point out the same, for improvement in future.
Regards,
Your Brother
So no need to PESH?
Please read the Sikh Rehat Maryada under the heading ‘Amrit Sanskar’ and you will find answer to your question:-
https://sgpc.net/?page_id=653
However, the Guru expects to get rid of vices and build up his character. There is no compromise on this.
What if you keep on masterbating and watching porn a lot after talking Amrit then do you have to pesh