Recently on social media , I came across a video where a bride & groom were seen kissing during there anand karaj ceremony . I submitted my disappointment & lack of knowledge as to how to behave in gurdwara premises . Post that I got message that prove through Gurbani/Rehat Maryada where it is written that such thing are not permisible . I could only respond with this :-
Arranged marriage is very much the norm in Sikhism. Dating is discouraged and premarital relations are forbidden by the Sikh code of conduct. Romance between couples is something which takes place after the Anand Karaj (wedding) and occurs behind closed doors.
Also related to Kam –
ਕਾਮੁ ਕ੍ਰੋਧੁ ਲੋਭੁ ਤਜਿ ਗਏ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਚਰਨੀ ਪਾਇ ॥੫॥ kaam karodh lobh taj ge piaare satigur charanee pai ||5|| Lust, anger and greed left me, O Beloved, when I fell at the Feet of the True Guru. ||5||
Need expertise , is there any thing more available either in Rehat Marayada or Gurbani which out rightly rejects this . If not , may be we need to have revised version of rehat marayada( I know everything cant be captured)