I have masterbated a lot and watched porn a lot as an Amrit Sikh what should I do should I pesh for ask forgiveness or tankna? Please tell me a lot of websites say yes and no can you please tell me the real answer please yes or no. 😢
I have masterbated a lot and watched porn a lot as an Amrit Sikh what should I do should I pesh for ask forgiveness or tankna?
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I just read the answer of this question. just go to gurdwara and ask for forgiveness and then focus on your study and work. Taje care bro.
You are not doing anything wrong by yourself because you have to get rid of this sexual energy. IkOnkar SatGur Parsad Hukam blessings to you and your family and friends and all Humanity.
I also did the same
& I too want to get rid of it **GAY SEX**
Do I have to pesh than?
Yes you have to. Watching Pornography & lusting enjoying other woman’s body is a Bujjer Kurait !!! Go pesh & make an iron commitment to stay away from it.
In response to your question, the undersigned wants to say that the Gurbani teaches us that we all are His children and make mistakes:-
ਜੈਸਾ ਬਾਲਕੁ ਭਾਇ ਸੁਭਾਈ ਲਖ ਅਪਰਾਧ ਕਮਾਵੈ ॥ ਕਰਿ ਉਪਦੇਸੁ ਝਿੜਕੇ ਬਹੁ ਭਾਤੀ ਬਹੁੜਿ ਪਿਤਾ ਗਲਿ ਲਾਵੈ ॥ ਪਿਛਲੇ ਅਉਗੁਣ ਬਖਸਿ ਲਏ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਆਗੈ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਪਾਵੈ ॥੨॥ (ਪੰਨਾ 624)
ਅਰਥ: ਹੇ ਭਾਈ! ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕੋਈ ਬੱਚਾ ਆਪਣੀ ਲਗਨ ਅਨੁਸਾਰ ਸੁਭਾਵ ਅਨੁਸਾਰ ਲੱਖਾਂ ਗ਼ਲਤੀਆਂ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਉਸ ਦਾ ਪਿਉ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਸਿੱਖਿਆ ਦੇ ਦੇ ਕੇ ਕਈ ਤਰੀਕਿਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਝਿੜਕਦਾ ਭੀ ਹੈ, ਪਰ ਫਿਰ ਆਪਣੇ ਗਲ ਨਾਲ (ਉਸ ਨੂੰ) ਲਾ ਲੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਇਸੇ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਪ੍ਰਭੂ-ਪਿਤਾ ਭੀ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਦੇ ਪਿਛਲੇ ਗੁਨਾਹ ਬਖ਼ਸ਼ ਲੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਤੇ ਅਗਾਂਹ ਵਾਸਤੇ (ਜੀਵਨ ਦੇ) ਠੀਕ ਰਸਤੇ ਉਤੇ ਪਾ ਦੇਂਦਾ ਹੈ।੧।
Like the worldly father snubs us but guides us and embraces us, in a similar manner, Akalpurakh/Guru also forgives us, for our faults and puts us on the right path.
Therefore, it is important that one should accept mistakes, build up character and make it a point not to repeat the mistakes.
Hope it helps. If you have any further questions, please do ask.
If you find any deficiencies, please point out the same, for improvement in future.
Regards,
Your Brother
What kind of rubbish & disgusting advise is being given on Sikh forums !!!!
The rehat maryada clearly says that u r not to do companionship of a woman not your wife.
You have watched naked women on the internet and you have watched them commit adultery and also lusted on them. This is ofcourse a BUJJER KURAIT and you need to re-baptise. Bcoz u have done bhog / enjoyed other women. It doesnt have to be physical. Sorry but you need to pesh. WhenGuri Tegh Bahadur ji clearly says that you should not even dream of other woman.