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Plzz read it once🙏 Sat Sri akal ji 🙏🙏 I don’t know if the way I’m asking this question here is ryt or not…but I still wanna ask. I love a boy whom I never met but have seen his photos and videos nd all on social media..nd I’m from India… he’s from Pakistan.. so sometimes things seem impossible regarding our meeting in lyf…I don’t know why I’m obsessed with him so much…lyk he’s in my mind all the tym …seems lyk he’s with me ..nd he means a lot to me in my heart…I don’t know if it’s mohabbat (true love) or something else…but whenever I go in the room where we do prayer n all …I always say (automatically,nd without thinking)…that ..hey mere rabba mera yaar meri jholi paa..(o God,plzz bless me with my soulmate)nd my heart itself, always mentions him in the prayer…I pray for him nd his well being…don’t know why.. it’s getting so deep nd serious… even sometimes I literally cry for him that I want him .. So I’m confused about this…nd think ..will rabb ji bless me in this matter nd will he be mine or not… I’m sorry if u think I asked a wrong question… really sorry 🙏🙏 P.S. :- I’m an adult and have marriagable age.
Kaira Gupta Ji it is difficult for me to know why you got interested in someone through social media. What I know is that in many cases people are not what they portray on social media. We don't know what their intentions are. We are looking for someone and when we see in social media we get attacheRead more
Kaira Gupta Ji it is difficult for me to know why you got interested in someone through social media. What I know is that in many cases people are not what they portray on social media. We don’t know what their intentions are. We are looking for someone and when we see in social media we get attached without knowing who they are exactly. They start portraying themselves according to what you are looking for. We get attached because of lust or obsession. I have come to know where girls had very bad experience after meeting someone on social media. It was not love but manipulation. I suggest you tread this with a great caution and control your obsession. Guru says
See lessਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਏਹਿ ਨ ਆਖੀਅਨਿ ਬਹਨਿ ਇਕਠੇ ਹੋਇ ॥ ਏਕ ਜੋਤਿ ਦੁਇ ਮੂਰਤੀ ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਸੋਇ ॥੩॥ AGGS 788
Dhan Pir Eh N Akhian Behan Ekathe Hoe || Ek Jot Duye Murati Dhan Pir Kehiai Soe ||3||
They are not said to be husband and wife, who merely sit together. They alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies.
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Bhupinderpal Singh Ji Naam in Gurmat is Godly Virtues and Simran is remembering them every moment of life. Bhai Gurdas Ji says ਜੈਸੇ ਖਾਂਡ ਖਾਂਡ ਕਹੈ ਮੁਖਿ ਨਹੀ ਮੀਠਾ ਹੋਇ ਜਬ ਲਗ ਜੀਭ ਸ੍ਵਾਦ ਖਾਂਡੁ ਨਹੀਂ ਖਾਈਐ ॥ Kabit Savaiye Bhai Gurdas Jais Khandd Khandd Kehai Mukh Nehi Mitha Hoe Jab Lag Jeebh Svad Khandd NehinRead more
Bhupinderpal Singh Ji Naam in Gurmat is Godly Virtues and Simran is remembering them every moment of life. Bhai Gurdas Ji says
See lessਜੈਸੇ ਖਾਂਡ ਖਾਂਡ ਕਹੈ ਮੁਖਿ ਨਹੀ ਮੀਠਾ ਹੋਇ ਜਬ ਲਗ ਜੀਭ ਸ੍ਵਾਦ ਖਾਂਡੁ ਨਹੀਂ ਖਾਈਐ ॥ Kabit Savaiye Bhai Gurdas
Jais Khandd Khandd Kehai Mukh Nehi Mitha Hoe Jab Lag Jeebh Svad Khandd Nehin Khaiai ||
ਜੈਸੇ ਰਾਤ ਅੰਧੇਰੀ ਮੈ ਦੀਪਕ ਦੀਪਕ ਕਹੈ ਤਿਮਰ ਨ ਜਾਈ ਜਬ ਲਗ ਨ ਜਰਾਈਐ
Jaisae Rat Andheri Mai Dipak Dipak Kehai Timar N Jai Jab Lag N Jaraiai ||
ਜੈਸੇ ਗਿਆਨ ਗਿਆਨ ਕਹੈ ਗਿਆਨ ਹੂੰ ਨ ਹੋਤ ਕਛੁ ਜਬ ਲਗੁ ਗੁਰ ਗਿਆਨ ਅੰਤਰਿ ਨ ਪਾਈਐ ॥
Jaise Giyan Giyan Kehai Giyan Hoon N Hot Kachu Jab Lag Gur Giyan Antar N Paiai ||
ਤੈਸੇ ਗੁਰ ਕਹੈ ਗੁਰਧਿਆਨ ਹੂ ਨ ਪਾਵਤ ਤਬ ਲਗੁ ਗੁਰ ਦਰਸ ਜਾਇ ਨ ਸਮਾਈਐ ॥੫੪੨॥
Taise Gur Kehai Gurdhian Hoo N Pavat Tab Lag Gur Daras Jae N Samaiai
Just as by saying sugar, sugar, one cannot feel sweetness of sugar in the mouth, unless sugar is actually placed on the tongue. In a dark night, saying lamp, lamp does not dispel darkness unless lamp is lit. By saying knowledge (Giyan) again and again, knowledge cannot be obtained, unless carefully reading and understanding the text. Similarly just repeatedly chanting Guru, Guru, one cannot get virtues of the Guru. One can get virtues and merge with the Guru only by contemplating on the Shabd of the Guru. Get spiritual knowledge and wisdom from it and live life accordingly.
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What is the meaning of “ Sant Ki Ninda Naanka Bahuri Bahuri Avtaar” from Sukhmani Sahib?
Very good question. Sant in Gurbani is Guru, NOT Babas of Dera. If we don't contemplate on spiritual knowledge and get wisdom from Gurbani, we die spiritual death due to our greed, anger, sexual lust, attachment to worldly passions and ego many times a day. That is bahur bahur avtar. When we die spiRead more
Very good question. Sant in Gurbani is Guru, NOT Babas of Dera. If we don’t contemplate on spiritual knowledge and get wisdom from Gurbani, we die spiritual death due to our greed, anger, sexual lust, attachment to worldly passions and ego many times a day. That is bahur bahur avtar. When we die spiritually because of our greed, we take spiritual birth (Avtar) of a dog etc. When we do things according to our mind (Mann), rejecting spiritual knowledge from Gurbani (Sant) is Sant Ki Ninda. I hope it clarifies.
See lessWhenever someone gets sick or something bad happens, other people say they will do ardaas and pray for them. Does this ardaas work, praying for other peoples wellbeing?
Doing Ardas helps us psychologically and we feel better. In fact Ardas should be to help me get over this problem or illness, not for getting better. Even when Darashikoh got ill, Guru Ji sent medication. ਸਤੁ ਸੰਤੋਖੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਅਰਦਾਸਿ ॥ ਤਾ ਸੁਣਿ ਸਦਿ ਬਹਾਲੇ ਪਾਸਿ ॥੧॥ AGGS 878 Sat Santokh Hovai Ardas || Ta SunnRead more
Doing Ardas helps us psychologically and we feel better. In fact Ardas should be to help me get over this problem or illness, not for getting better. Even when Darashikoh got ill, Guru Ji sent medication. ਸਤੁ ਸੰਤੋਖੁ ਹੋਵੈ ਅਰਦਾਸਿ ॥ ਤਾ ਸੁਣਿ ਸਦਿ ਬਹਾਲੇ ਪਾਸਿ ॥੧॥ AGGS 878
See lessSat Santokh Hovai Ardas || Ta Sunn Sd Behale Pas ||1||
If a prayer is for truthful life and contentment, then we feel God with us all the time.
ਤੇਰਾ ਕੀਆ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਗੈ ॥ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਪਦਾਰਥੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਮਾਂਗੈ ॥੨॥੪੨॥੯੩॥ AGGS 394
Tera Kia Mitha Lagai || Har Naam Padarath Nanak Mangai ||2||42||93||
Your all actions seem sweet to me. Nanak begs the treasure of your Virtues.
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Does God gives us what we really want?
ਨਰ ਚਾਹਤ ਕਛੁ ਅਉਰ ਅਉਰੈ ਕੀ ਅਉਰੈ ਭਈ ॥ ਚਿਤਵਤ ਰਹਿਓ ਠਗਉਰ ਨਾਨਕ ਫਾਸੀ ਗਲਿ ਪਰੀ ॥੩੮॥ AGGS 1428 Nar Chahat Kach Aur Aurai Ki Aurai Bhai || Chitavat Rehio Thagour Nanak Fasi Gal Pari ||38|| One wishes for something, but something different happens. Nanak says one plots to deceive others, but places the noose arouRead more
ਨਰ ਚਾਹਤ ਕਛੁ ਅਉਰ ਅਉਰੈ ਕੀ ਅਉਰੈ ਭਈ ॥ ਚਿਤਵਤ ਰਹਿਓ ਠਗਉਰ ਨਾਨਕ ਫਾਸੀ ਗਲਿ ਪਰੀ ॥੩੮॥ AGGS 1428
See lessNar Chahat Kach Aur Aurai Ki Aurai Bhai || Chitavat Rehio Thagour Nanak Fasi Gal Pari ||38||
One wishes for something, but something different happens. Nanak says one plots to deceive others, but places the noose around own neck instead. Worldly temptations are never fulfilled. After one, another crops up. One never gets contentment in the world. The only way to fulfill the worldly temptations is to control them by adopting and assimilating the Virtues of the God with their consciousness. God has made arrangements in advance to fulfill our daily requirements. We need to work for them. People beg for children from God but God has provided them as well in advance. If for some reason there is a defect in the body, one should seek treatment for it. If the defect cannot be treated then accept it as Will of the God (Hukam) and live with it happily. We will then never ask God Why me? And will never try to bribe God or make business dealings (Sukhna Sukhni). We should be asking for God’s blessing in the form of Virtues (Naam), and contentment.
ਵਿਣੁ ਤੁਧੁ ਹੋਰੁ ਜਿ ਮੰਗਣਾ ਸਿਰਿ ਦੁਖਾ ਕੈ ਦੁਖ ॥ ਦੇਹਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਤੋਖੀਆ ਉਤਰੈ ਮਨ ਕੀ ਭੁਖ ॥ AGGS 958
Vin Tudh Hor J Mangana Sir Dukha Kai Dukh || Deh Naam Santokhia Otarai Mann Ki Bhukh ||
To ask for any other than You God is the most miserable of miseries. Please bless me with Your Virtues (Naam), and make me contented so that the hunger of my mind (Mann) for worldly desires is satisfied.