Kaira Gupta Ji it is difficult for me to know why you got interested in someone through social media. What I know is that in many cases people are not what they portray on social media. We don’t know what their intentions are. We are looking for someone and when we see in social media we get attached without knowing who they are exactly. They start portraying themselves according to what you are looking for. We get attached because of lust or obsession. I have come to know where girls had very bad experience after meeting someone on social media. It was not love but manipulation. I suggest you tread this with a great caution and control your obsession. Guru says
ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਏਹਿ ਨ ਆਖੀਅਨਿ ਬਹਨਿ ਇਕਠੇ ਹੋਇ ॥ ਏਕ ਜੋਤਿ ਦੁਇ ਮੂਰਤੀ ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਸੋਇ ॥੩॥ AGGS 788
Dhan Pir Eh N Akhian Behan Ekathe Hoe || Ek Jot Duye Murati Dhan Pir Kehiai Soe ||3||
They are not said to be husband and wife, who merely sit together. They alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies.

Very good question. Sant in Gurbani is Guru, NOT Babas of Dera. If we don’t contemplate on spiritual knowledge and get wisdom from Gurbani, we die spiritual death due to our greed, anger, sexual lust, attachment to worldly passions and ego many times a day. That is bahur bahur avtar. When we die spiritually because of our greed, we take spiritual birth (Avtar) of a dog etc. When we do things according to our mind (Mann), rejecting spiritual knowledge from Gurbani (Sant) is Sant Ki Ninda. I hope it clarifies.

ਨਰ ਚਾਹਤ ਕਛੁ ਅਉਰ ਅਉਰੈ ਕੀ ਅਉਰੈ ਭਈ ॥ ਚਿਤਵਤ ਰਹਿਓ ਠਗਉਰ ਨਾਨਕ ਫਾਸੀ ਗਲਿ ਪਰੀ ॥੩੮॥ AGGS 1428
Nar Chahat Kach Aur Aurai Ki Aurai Bhai || Chitavat Rehio Thagour Nanak Fasi Gal Pari ||38||
One wishes for something, but something different happens. Nanak says one plots to deceive others, but places the noose around own neck instead. Worldly temptations are never fulfilled. After one, another crops up. One never gets contentment in the world. The only way to fulfill the worldly temptations is to control them by adopting and assimilating the Virtues of the God with their consciousness. God has made arrangements in advance to fulfill our daily requirements. We need to work for them. People beg for children from God but God has provided them as well in advance. If for some reason there is a defect in the body, one should seek treatment for it. If the defect cannot be treated then accept it as Will of the God (Hukam) and live with it happily. We will then never ask God Why me? And will never try to bribe God or make business dealings (Sukhna Sukhni). We should be asking for God’s blessing in the form of Virtues (Naam), and contentment.
ਵਿਣੁ ਤੁਧੁ ਹੋਰੁ ਜਿ ਮੰਗਣਾ ਸਿਰਿ ਦੁਖਾ ਕੈ ਦੁਖ ॥ ਦੇਹਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਤੋਖੀਆ ਉਤਰੈ ਮਨ ਕੀ ਭੁਖ ॥ AGGS 958
Vin Tudh Hor J Mangana Sir Dukha Kai Dukh || Deh Naam Santokhia Otarai Mann Ki Bhukh ||
To ask for any other than You God is the most miserable of miseries. Please bless me with Your Virtues (Naam), and make me contented so that the hunger of my mind (Mann) for worldly desires is satisfied.